A bit about Love

Today I am writing about what I want & cherish the most, Love.

We all want and ache for love so muuuuch it hurts!
Yet, most of us have no idea how to give and receive love.
Some of us have one side down to a science, yet the other side is totally off kilter.
But honestly, what examples did we have anyways?
Who taught us about love?

I was once in a relationship where I begged for someone's love!
Not literally, but with every action.
Hoping, one day I would be acknowledged and loved.
It never happened…
I know NOW it had little to do with me.
Except for my poor selection of a mate, hahahaha!!
I could have spun on my head and done friggin magic tricks and I wouldn't have been loved!
The problem was he never loved himself, never honoured himself, never looked at himself in the mirror and said, "Dam your f'n amazing!"
So how could he share those feelings with anyone else?

Because that's it! In the end that is really it, if your mate is not in the space of "LOVE",
you will never share the deep, rich, wonderful, enlightening sexy, scrumptious love you soooo ache for.

So now I am here, I am aware and grateful as to why I need to be in that relationship.
That daily, heart wrenching, not measuring up. And coming back for more! …arghhhh
I needed to show myself love, and love myself enough to want more and claim it!

People, ladies, we need to show ourselves enough love and step into who we really are and that person will show up.
The person who is a champion, the man/woman who wants to honour, cherish, devour, love you all over.
The person who feels great that his/her mate walks around feeling like a loved princess/prince!
So make your selection wisely, don't rush to be in love with someone else.
Fall in love with yourself first, so you can then really know how to love another….